The problem isn't sitting around a table with your friends while drinking beverages. The problem isn't sitting at a bar or counter with your family having drinks. The problem might be marketing the idea that drinking alcohol is required or pre-destined. The problem might be many generations who have succumbed to said marketing, spreading the "pretend reality" that, in order to enjoy life , alcohol must be involved. The problem might be that sitting on a barstool isn't the issue; it's driving home intoxicated that is an issue. It's domestic abuse that is an issue. It's physical and mental addiction as a result of chronic use that is an issue.
We've seen fishing in cold mountain streams, horseback riding in the west, dancing in night clubs, riding in limos, going to Vegas, birthday parties and weddings, big pick-up trucks, sleek sports cars, sporting events, movie stars... everything with neon beer signs in the background.
Think about older generations who didn't have the tools we have to learn about the effects of alcohol on the human body, on our behaviors, on the danger. One may argue religion has blessed wine with impunity from this discourse. How could something sacred be bad?
There are so many layers once the fog has lifted.